dynamics in this tribe

topic posted Mon, September 11, 2006 - 9:49 PM by 
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i find this tribe to be the oddest arena sometimes, not what i expected. men tend to contribute the most, and when a disagreement occurs, everyone stops posting.

i would hope for this to be a place where women (and male feminists) could speak their minds, but it doesn't feel that way to me. does anyone have any insight to share about the dynamics here? i don't know, maybe feminists are chilling in another tribe more?
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    Re: dynamics in this tribe

    Mon, September 11, 2006 - 11:25 PM
    Something that might be a factor is the fact that on the whole Tribe seems to be dying down a bit. I have few tribes that are actually active anymore- people seem to be flocking elsewhere.

    But as far as my input- I still have A LOT to learn about feminism and feminist philosophy and I think a number of my responses kind of reflect that. Sometimes I don't respond because of my own ignorance, others because I don't have anything to say on the matter that hasn't been said by other posters.

    I think if we (myself definitely included) try to alleviate the semi-hostile vibe that's sometimes created (which I unfortunately sometimes contribute to), discussion could flow more freely and ideas could be exchanged more readily.
    • Re: dynamics in this tribe

      Tue, September 12, 2006 - 12:16 AM
      sexism, racism, homophobia, etc. -- they are all parts of the air we breathe, not some special, rare substance to be treated as toxic waste. let's get our stuff on the table and talk about it! anyone who feels like they are afraid to talk because they won't say the right "feminist" thing are robbing themselves. we're all guilty, though some of us have more energy to deal with missteps than others, and that's cool and understandable for sure!
      • Re: dynamics in this tribe

        Tue, September 12, 2006 - 11:22 AM
        I agree...but the quietude seems to be broadly among other tribes too...is it the summertime quandry...to be in or outside?
        I have been too busy with outside activities to spend too much time on the computer, but her comes autumn...the begining of another time for reflection.
  • Re: dynamics in this tribe

    Tue, September 12, 2006 - 1:24 PM
    Tribes ebb and flow, grow quiet and hibernate for a time then spring back into frenzied activity when one least expects it. This tribe is no exception. I imagine many of us also actively participate at one of the many feminist blogs on the internet; these are where I do most of my non-academic feminist reading.

    It's possible too that you're simply expecting something different from this tribe than what the majority of members expect or want. When I think "feminist philosophy" discussions of evolutionary psychology, the incest taboo, or the biological basis of gender don't immediately spring to mind. Questions of history, language, semiotics and representation, strategies for effecting social and political change and speculation on the structure of future societies do. People have widely different interests and different takes on a subject, particularly a subject as broad as this one-maybe a tribe devoted to broader questions of gender and sexuality rather than feminist philosophy might fit your expectations better (and if one doesn't already exist, you could start one-I'm sure it would attract interest and participants).

    Finally, a couple of recent posts by new members seemed off-topic for this tribe and more like the rants of disgruntled trolls (the kind all too familiar to every reader of feminist or liberal blogs) than genuine attempts at discussion. My invariable response to trolls is to ignore them; apparently others choose the same strategy.
    • Re: dynamics in this tribe

      Tue, September 12, 2006 - 1:42 PM
      "Questions of history, language, semiotics and representation, strategies for effecting social and political change and speculation on the structure of future societies do."

      so why don't you introduce such topics then? i would love it!

      my formal background (BA in psych, focused on gender and sexuality, MA in psych focused on identity politics and language -- my thesis was on the semantic culture of human/animal difference, MALS in women's studies, focusing on the philosophical and feminist relevance of memetics) is almost exclusively in cultural psych and the feminist philosophy of language, believe it or not.

      it appears you may have me pinned down as "one of them" or some brand of nasty biological determinist?


      "Finally, a couple of recent posts by new members seemed off-topic for this tribe and more like the rants of disgruntled trolls"

      which posts do you mean?
      • Re: dynamics in this tribe

        Tue, September 12, 2006 - 3:04 PM
        "so why don't you introduce such topics then? i would love it! "

        The next time I have a question or concern regarding any of these I will. Right now, I have no particular pressing need to discuss these topics and an over-full discussion load elsewhere.

        "it appears you may have me pinned down as "one of them" or some brand of nasty biological determinist?"

        No, I just used the themes of the last few topics you've broached here and those I know you've expressed particular interest in elsewhere, assuming these are your current areas of interest and that you might like to find equally intrigued others to discuss them with you. I don't tend to assume much of anything about people I really don't know and I rarely lump people into categories as simple and monolithic as "us" and "them".

        As for the posts I was referring to, Jessica (presumably) removed one of them almost immediately a couple of weeks ago; another recent post ranted on about "feminazis" and women essentially being the root cause of all the ills in world. Neither post seemed worthy of a response here.
    • Re: dynamics in this tribe

      Tue, September 12, 2006 - 1:43 PM
      "When I think "feminist philosophy" discussions of evolutionary psychology, the incest taboo, or the biological basis of gender don't immediately spring to mind"

      why not? can't philosophy include biology? why this cordone?
      • Re: dynamics in this tribe

        Tue, September 12, 2006 - 2:11 PM
        No cordon-as I made sure to mention, a subject as broad as this means different things at different times to different people. At this point in my life, these topics just don't especially interest me and aren't likely to elicit a response. That doesn't mean they won't interest others, although right now, with this membership, they don't particularly seem to.
        • Re: dynamics in this tribe

          Tue, September 12, 2006 - 3:21 PM
          "although right now, with this membership, they don't particularly seem to"

          that's my point. people aren't bringing up whatever interests them! are there other topics people are flocking to, and it's just my personal wound that people aren't more responsive to my posts about biology. nope.

          also it just so happens that *most* feminists are "not presently interested" in biology. why? because biology has been used against feminism more than for, i think. i spent almost 20 years as a devout social constructionist myself. but we leave out an enormous piece of the picture when we do so, and we end up looking like we're in denial of any biological differences among people construable along sex lines. and frankly deconstructing culture is easier than having to learn all that science and math and shit, at least for me!

          or might it be part of the rather systematic marginalization and disinterest of women in science?
  • Re: dynamics in this tribe

    Tue, September 12, 2006 - 2:53 PM
    TO JEFF"S ORIGINAL POST: Yeah, I was noticing that. Thanks for mentioning. I haven't contributed yet because I felt out of place...in a friggin' FEMINIST tribe...wild. Anyway...I will get on my horses and drop some posts soon. Promise to be radically political...hope ya'll are ready! HA.
    • Re: dynamics in this tribe

      Wed, September 20, 2006 - 4:31 PM
      > Right now, I have no particular pressing need to discuss these topics and an over-full discussion load elsewhere.

      Yes, I agree. As a feminist who's a little longer in the tooth than she was in the heady 80's, I am really past spending all my time discussing feminist issues! Sometimes there's a post on here that interests me and then I chime in, but most of the time it's (forgive me) fairly old hat. I stay a member just in case but mostly my life is engaged with other stuff.

      I like reading through the posts and seeing the lively debate though and I think it's a good sign. As to the male domination, well, according to my hormone balance of the moment I could see that as encouraging (men are interested, cool) or as "so what's new?" :-)
      • Re: dynamics in this tribe

        Sat, September 30, 2006 - 12:31 PM
        Well here are a few feminist issues for us to discuss. I want to know why women still don't make as much monday in the work place as men? And why, decades after the movie 9-5 was made, men still haven't done anything about that, but expect women to pay for dinner or split the bill but never ask if she can actually afford to? Seems to me men still benefit from our struggles then we have!! I didn't even start calling myself a feminist till I was 30, just ten years ago! Yah, I'm sort of a poor white chick, but my mom and sister had struggled so much that I felt like I had been "born free". Boy was it a rude awakening when I landed in a battered women's shelter just months after my 30th birthday. I got a first hand taste of what my mother went through with her first husband.

        Women are still beaten and murdered in this country. I don't know if I could call any man a true feminist until he has done something to donate time to healing this problem. Wars will continue, children will starve until every man on the planet can say he has made peace with every single woman in his family. Ask her if she has ever been beaten or raped. Or anything resembling either of those. You may find these issues closer to your own backyard than you ever dreamed.
        • Re: dynamics in this tribe

          Mon, October 2, 2006 - 10:48 AM
          Right on Ray. I think we're barking up the same tree. I think what you're saying is "action rather than words"?

          Personally I burned a decade talking about why we earn less for the same job, and why women are battered, and then realised NOTHING was gonna change because I had some theories. I'm a feminist and hey, guess what, the men still get paid more than me.

          So, I realised I'd better take action where I could and then save my energy otherwise. I certainly can't be arsed teaching men about women's issues. My response is go and read the same books I read. Then do something.

          Actually I think men have a huge role, not in helping me or other women directly, but in teaching boys. Boys have no effing clue about how to treat women and girls. One of the most moving thigns I ever listened to was two older men telling a violent young teen about how disgusted they were at the way he treated women, especially his mother. If men focused on cleaning up the male act, then women would be a lot better off. In fact, I'm gonna post this as a separate thread.
        • Re: dynamics in this tribe

          Tue, October 3, 2006 - 10:04 AM
          i guess i rarely post here because i dont wear the "feminist" lable very well and fear that my perspective will be considered "off topic"
          as a woman, i certainly appreciate the feminist movement and the social changes that have come of women giving voice to reality!
          i benefit and further this tradition that values people having voice, critiquing the power structure, working for social change and equity. and i appreciate that feminism has moved (alas only) parts of our culture into a post modern awareness of contextuality and furthered the capacity for critical reasoning. the place i get bogged down is in devisive mentalities and the literalistic approach to gender.

          there are lots of men who are raped, beaten, and the victums of domestic violence. the "oppressor" is just as oppressed by the oppressive system, so in this instance, gender identifies men as "other" and "we" talk about "them" needing to change, but what about all those little boys molested by their mothers? what about the many men i have known who are beaten by the women in their lives? they never talk about it. the oppression dictates that it will make them less of a man-shame silences. this too seems that it should be part of the feminist battle, that as long as any of us are oppressed, all of us are oppressed, as long as the wounded masculine is not allowed healthy outlets to voice in this culture, all suffer. I agree that it is not "woman's" responsibility to heal men per se, that is just too narrow. but it is all of our responsibilities to nurture healthy culture. men are as wonded as women and there is so much less voice around it, less social education, less outreach.... i dont know how we address it, or whose job it is, or if this opinion places me out side of "feminism." I just know that wounded people, male and female, gay and straight, of all colors, ethnicities, races, wound other people. the dynamic goes beyond gender, but the feminist movement has benefited the culture by giving us all tools to think and talk about these things, so for me in particular, feminism must go beyond rigidified ideas of gender to manifest the value of its full potential, its insights must address gender, race, class, all the evil isms, and that is how i use it. the value of feminism, like marxism and liberation theology, is that we can talk about dynamics of power, be sensative to the multiplicity of woundedness, and in doing so minimize the need to deny the woundedness that hides behind power differentials. maybe thats too optimistic. maybe im in the wrong tribe. certainly some one will let me know. either way, take good care.
          • Re: dynamics in this tribe

            Tue, October 3, 2006 - 10:59 PM
            so after posting here, im still thinking throughout the day... and the post about womans wages echos through my head. yes, ive always made crap for wages in a feild dominated by wemon, and i dont know what to do about that. And then i notice, as im thinking about my meger lifetime of wages, i start thinking about the 93 % of innercity black male youth who are unemployed and cant find work for so long its no use trying anymore in so many u.s. cities, and about how everytime this "imigration" topic comes up in the media, and the political debate gets heated on how "illegals" "take jobs americans dont want" i think about how hard lots of the homeless kids ive known look for work and then struggle to keep it, and i think about how i want the 53% of entering highschool students who will never graduate from the oakland public schools to actually have a chance at an education, and how this culture fails so many people, and how me, with my wages i think are piddly, am really a privilaged, educated, white woman, and that im pretty danged spoiled. so i dont know if this is a confession or a plea, but what i want to know is how does feminist philosophy serve this bigger picture of our communities. i think it does or i wouldnt be in this tribe, at least for me, that is what it does: remind us not to buy into the devisive illusions of those with power.... but i guess id like a little education on this whole thing, cuz my feminist education is growing up with three generations of independent wemon, and the only person i really read is bell hooks, feminist wise.... so i thank you for your patience with me. and look forward to some illumination.....
          • Re: dynamics in this tribe

            Sat, October 7, 2006 - 4:12 PM
            "i dont know how we address it, or whose job it is, or if this opinion places me out side of "feminism.""

            i feel that feminism is just the gestalt of viewing power relations and cultural phenomena with a focus on gender and sex. that doesn't mean it's exclusive of any other viewpoint, and you certainly can't look at gender and sex without taking into account race, class, age, ability, etc. they don't exist separately. the feminism of the 70s and early 80s was largely promoted by white women who had some material privilege, whose primary oppression was gender. but there's really been an integration of viewpoints through the late 80s and 90s and the 00s as well, where feminism is certainly more inclusive of other axes of oppression. black men can focus on race and class, while turning a blind spot on how they participate in gender oppression; white women can focus on gender and not see how they benefit from racial and class privilege; etc. but a truly humanitarian outlook would include all sources of suffering in their consideration of what we need to build a society with less of it.
            • Re: dynamics in this tribe

              Sat, October 21, 2006 - 10:49 PM
              I only just joined this tribe about an hour ago, but I want to say that I respect all the people who have made such intelligent posts here. I am quite happy to see so many men here who realize that equality isn't just a "women's interest". I hope to see discussion here continue, as feminist issues have been at the forefront of my mind lately. In the posts I've read so far, there has been disagreement but it was quite respectful, more like a debate. And that is a very good sign. I will be checking back here often, and I may start some threads myself if things are lagging.

              And I, too, have been told that Tribe has been at a low ebb lately. But I see that as a good thing. That means that the people who do still come here probably have a specific reason to be here as opposed to, let's say, MySpace or one of the many other massively popular sites. In my opinion it's a filter of sorts - you don't get as many people making posts like "this is so stupid" with no intelligent explanation for their assertion. You don't seem to see the demographic that is just cruising for something, anything, to do because they're bored. People seem to come to Tribe because they have an ideology of some sort, and they seem sincere about it most of the time. That's just my observation, anyway.
              • Re: dynamics in this tribe

                Sun, October 22, 2006 - 2:53 AM
                i appreciate your positive outlook, thanks for cultivating good energy and emphasizing the good will and common values that bring us together here, even though we may disagree sometimes. disagreement is what teaches me a lot of the time! and right on about tribe, myspace sounds quite a bit hallower, as i understand it, and it's not as cool looking and tribe is a better name, so nah! : p

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