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i seem to be in a group of social constructionists, which i have been for many years, but i'm now coming around to including evolutionary biology and anatomy as i go. i'm trying to figure out what is, not just what i want it to be. (after all, even if something is statistically true of women and men as groups, even physiologically, that doesn't mean that you can assume anything about any individual you meet.) i do believe there are trends among the sexes that are fairly loose, but still discernible, but that any limbic or endocrinological factor is still subject to the cognitive considerations of the neocortex. now, does this mean we become free via our frontal lobes consideration of how we want to behave? i don't think so. i actually find myself to be a determinist now. not only a genetic determinist, but a memetic, historical, cultural, hormonal, nutritional... etc. determinist! i don't believe in an ahistorical "soul" that somehow makes decisions outside of its situation.
how do you all reconcile your experience and desire for freedom with materialism and determinism? can someone choose to be gay? what determines which person will become feminist, for example?
how do you all reconcile your experience and desire for freedom with materialism and determinism? can someone choose to be gay? what determines which person will become feminist, for example?
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Tue, July 10, 2007 - 3:42 PMthis is an interesting article on the force of habit in our daily decision making...
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Tue, July 10, 2007 - 4:42 PMFrom the gender and sexual freedom fairy? -
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Wed, July 11, 2007 - 12:43 PMthere's a difference between ideas and biological reality. it's how they interact to create experience and cultural complexity that's really interesting.
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 1:02 PMhere is an interesting overview of what i think is a responsible, appropriately cautious, and to me overwhelming convincing approach to the relationship between genotype and the production of culture.
www.sscnet.ucla.edu/comm/ste...imer.html
the only real reservation i have about evolutionary psychology is that it doesn't really point to a way to connect insights into the functional modularity of the human mind and the production of complex and chaotic assemblages that are worthy of study because of their political and moral significance as well as their singularity and beauty. but as a method and approach i think that it lays out a profoundly important baseline for the study of "higher" culture that will require new methods and new approaches. but i definitely think that trying to study culture without at least understanding and being aware of the insights that approaches like evolutionary psychology produce will condemn one to a profoundly limited view that is ultimately disconnected from the imminant reality that surrounds us and is the original impetus of all study. in the way that judith butler is limited. it doesn't mean that the theorists of ideas aren't talking about something that is real and important or that their insights aren't useful (as i think that the notion of performativity is useful), but the assertion that talking about human beings must always be done through that perspective to be properly conscientious and aware of epistemological complexity is to me more of a barrier to a more full understanding of the human condition than a useful guideline. of course if that's not a goal then that's no problem.
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Wed, July 11, 2007 - 11:21 AMblue-j
I would be extremely cautious about applying evolutionary biology to human behavior. I've studied evolution and genetics for a very long time and am appalled at most of the applications to human behavior. I think most of them are irresponsible at best. Which first, my reason for caution in terms of what we understand of the interaction between environment and gene expression? Or in terms of the abuses of genetics when people attempt to apply it to human beings?
I know it's a hot topic and the science is progressing rapidly but a lot of hardcore research is needed to really demonstrate that gene expression is responsible for human behavior, the type of research that is illegal to do on human beings which means that most of the literature out there is based on statistical correlation between certain traits and certain behaviors. It's a beginning, an important and interesting beginning. But the sexy conclusions drawn by science writers, reporters and grant seeking researchers are sketchy at best and I think irresponsible where they can impact real human lives.
It is a fascinating topic and one that I hope we will come to understand over time through careful, responsible research. The problem is that of separating out the impact of environment from the impact of genes and now that we know that environment can switch on certain genes or switch them off it becomes even more complex. It's an exciting research area because we don't know the answer. It's also a great example of a research area where personal bias is going to have a huge impact on what a researcher chooses to investigate, the method of investigation and the outcome. I'm sure I feel so strongly because women and minorities have been the victims of the abuses of this type of research for a very long time.
I'm not deterministic because my understanding of population genetics and ecology shows me how infinitely varied the world is, and how sensitive systems are (we are each a system) to small variations over time, and how very important random chance can be. I think we live in a much more chaotic than deterministic universe and that is why we experience freedom. Chaos is freedom, because chaos is possibility, and possibility is freedom. -
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 11:43 AMyes yes, i share your caution. studying ethology and then trying to apply neat formulas to humans doesn't work out. selfish gene models do work great for a lot of living creatures, but humans are weird! that's why i wrote in my post of so many other vectors. my master's in women's studies is about this exact issue, determinism and sex.
"I'm not deterministic because my understanding of population genetics and ecology shows me how infinitely varied the world is, and how sensitive systems are (we are each a system) to small variations over time, and how very important random chance can be."
you're begging the question with the term "random" here. sensitivity, variety, interdependency -- all exist fine in a determinist worldview.
"I think we live in a much more chaotic than deterministic universe and that is why we experience freedom. Chaos is freedom, because chaos is possibility, and possibility is freedom."
chaos theory is not anti-deterministic, it just says that causes can be remote and unpredictable. unpredictability is more of an epistemic issue than an ontic one. also, if chaos is queen, that still doesn't get us to freedom, unless you define freedom as being willy-nilly and unpredictable. -
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 12:09 PMOkay, I'm going to take a shot at something here and try to understand it from my viewpoint. Assuming you are interested in my viewpoint, which it's fine if you are not.
I read your response here and see you shooting down my perspective. You seem to have a fixed viewpoint rather than be an open one. It seems as if I have to argue with you to have a conversation. It seems we are not exploring a topic together we are arguing to see who is right.
Now obviously, the internet sucks as a means of communication but this is how the discussion comes across to me. This is an attitude I find very frequently in men and I rarely participate in such discussions. I don't give a shit about being right, I care about learning and exchanging ideas. Is it a gender difference? Biological? Cultural? Personal? I have no idea but this is one of the differences I see between *some* men and women in science. Men, in general, seem to get off on a good argument (obviously, not true for all men) while women in general find arguing tedious, or even threatening(obviously not true for all women).
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 12:52 PMi am very interested lori, so sorry to have come off as abrupt. i also know what you mean about boys being dismissive and competitive about intellectual discussions, and i hate it. i engage in it at times because sometimes competition brings out the best in us and i enjoy directness, but collaboration is totally where i'm at. i care much more about learning than i do about my ego. i'm one of the few boys on tribe that i'm aware of that actually dares to change his mind and admit he's wrong! such silliness. (actually the issue of free will is one of the primary ones i changed my mind on.)
also, i do contribute a fair amount to tribe, so i try to be pretty succinct. including disclaimers for each statement feels inefficient, so i usually just try to include a statement like this once to anyone whom i'm engaged with so they know that i really am not as sure as i sound. my softness becomes more and more apparent the more you get to know me. i've spent the last 18 months thinking nearly exclusively about the issue of free will, so i guess you could say i am both burned out and a little jaded. i feel familiar with your argument from chaos, and that was the most present reason for any dismissiveness you perceived. but please, i implore you, continue to share and engage with me. there is obviously tons i can learn from you. all my formal education is in philosophy and psychology (bachelor's and first master's), particularly the psychology of identity (gender and sexuality specifically), so i'm still new to science really and am the first to share that fact! -
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 4:13 PMblue-j,
I'm glad I took a chance. I am also a fan of succinctness. But a question can be as succinct as a statement. I've been discovering that asking people questions is a great way to get them to think and discuss while blanket statements can be the end of a discussion.
Determinism is not something I've put as much thought into as you have but I think we would have to define what we mean by determinism. Ironically, I think the human belief in determinism is rather dangerous but I'm okay with the universe as it is (other than the human part of it) and if the universe is deterministic, then it's a very loose and flexible determinism.
Even if I'm understanding your concept of determinism (everything can be explained? A leads to B leads to C) I still think human awareness and consciousness is like a random number generator in a simulation. If I'm understanding you, it's as if the fact that we can explain all the factors that led to a certain outcome means only that outcome was possible. But the human ability to anticipate possible outcomes and make decisions about behavior throws a loop into the circuit. I have to admit I'm curious as to why free will would be so important to you. But then I find the fact that you are thinking about free will to be the best indicator that you have free will, or perhaps, we are evolving the capacity for free will. -
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 7:04 PM"Even if I'm understanding your concept of determinism (everything can be explained? A leads to B leads to C)"
well, explanation opens up another can of worms (language), but basically i define determinism as meaning that everything has a cause, and that given full knowledge of all antecedents, only one future or result is possible.
"I still think human awareness and consciousness is like a random number generator in a simulation."
surprisingly enough, random number generators aren't actually random. computers use algorithms or pull from extremely long strings when generating a random number. the concept of "random" may be more epistemological than ontological, in that it represents what we currently don't know about rather than what is. check out www.random.org where they will sell you "true random numbers" generated from interference patterns that are just simply too complicated for humans to predict.
"If I'm understanding you, it's as if the fact that we can explain all the factors that led to a certain outcome means only that outcome was possible. But the human ability to anticipate possible outcomes and make decisions about behavior throws a loop into the circuit."
yep, this is dennett's claim in "freedom evolves" as well. it was also my first response when confronted with material determinism. my question back is, well, perhaps that just places the determinist proximate cause more evidently earlier in the chain; that is, for example, visual stimuli of incoming brick hits eye, signal goes through visual center of brain, response chain shoots down nerves, you move, you dodge the supposedly inevitable. you probably mean more complex planning though, right? there is much to say in response. for one, it seems we not only decide to do things before we are conscious of deciding much of the time (see benjamin libet and daniel wegner's works), but that even the actions in broca's and wernicke's areas and the ACC that activates language and planning are part of a material causal chain. determinism seems to me to spell the death of the antiquated notion of the soul that sits outside of the material plane and steers us around until it disconnects at death.
"I have to admit I'm curious as to why free will would be so important to you."
i've been studying why the world is crazy and why i'm crazy and what to do to heal for a long time, and figuring out the relationship between mind and matter and society and language and all that stuff matters to me a lot. i've been in therapy for 11 years as a kind of spiritual practice, and in that context, it's fascinating to see how much the unconscious decides while the rather adolescent conscious will jumps up and down. it started as my thesis tying memetics to feminism, going in intending to push over yet another sexist brand of determinism, and then got converted gradually to determinism! arrgh, it's been a weird journey. why do you think you're curious? you must have thought about this stuff before, too.
"But then I find the fact that you are thinking about free will to be the best indicator that you have free will, or perhaps, we are evolving the capacity for free will. "
i don't think determinism is as ugly as it first appears. we don't know the outcomes, so we have to try our best. i feel like it's allowed me to be more forgiving toward others and myself, too. it's like taoism in a way, feeling part of the flow, being humble about the degree of control i really have. it's like a non-cheesy version of "let go, let god" or "everything has a reason," etc.
does all that make any sense? sorry to go on so long here. i'd like to get going talking about gender and sex in relation to this stuff... i'm curious what people might think on how these issues relate to social change? who becomes feminist and who doesn't? why? why are you queer or straight or bi? etc.
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Thu, July 12, 2007 - 9:50 AMwell, explanation opens up another can of worms (language), but basically i define determinism as meaning that everything has a cause, and that given full knowledge of all antecedents, only one future or result is possible.
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personally, i agree with you, sorta. i do think that if one knew every chemical flash in the brain, and could follow each and every stimulus ever entered into the brain, then our behaviors would be 100 %predictable.
a friend of mine who is a physicist geek, said otherwise, since you have the Heisenberg pricinpal. you can never know "all", cause that is physically impossible, not just logistically impossible. you cannot by law of nature, know both when and where an electron is at the exact same time (if i'm stating that properly... physics is hardly my strong suit).
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Thu, July 12, 2007 - 10:36 AM"a friend of mine who is a physicist geek, said otherwise, since you have the Heisenberg pricinpal. you can never know "all", cause that is physically impossible, not just logistically impossible. you cannot by law of nature, know both when and where an electron is at the exact same time (if i'm stating that properly... physics is hardly my strong suit). "
we don't yet know if the heisenberg principle is a matter of epistemology or ontology. it's likely that it's better talked about in terms of an interactionist metaphysics than a basic indeterminacy of the universe, i.e. all perception is an interaction that involves limited detection of stimuli, and therefore participates in generating experience. for example, we can't see ultraviolet and can see red; bees are the opposite; we experience different things, both of which are a result of interactions with the environment, but result in very different experiences or "realities."
also, there is no current evidence that the indeterminacy of quanta has any correspondence in the macro world of our experience.
"but either way - it *appears* that we have free will. we act as if we have free will. isn't that enough? "
for sure, determinism doesn't effect how we behave, since we can't know what is determined and must do our best. but it does help us view crime and harmful behavior differently. instead of a healthy person making bad decisions who needs to be punished, we have damaged people who need to be separated out and exposed to positive determinist vectors. kinda like a secular "hate the sin but not the sinner."
also, daniel wegner is freaking me out. his book "the illusion of conscious will" gives so many examples of where we think we have free will and we aren't even accurately describing what we have decided to do! determinism opens up a whole humble attention to the power of the unconscious.
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Thu, July 12, 2007 - 10:41 AMi'd love to hear how people feel about this in relation to feminism and sex. what "determined" your becoming a feminist? are people willing to share stories about this transformation?
i grew up with 5 sisters, one grandma, and was very close to my mom. my brother and dad bonded over masculine activities, and i was positioned as a kind of faggy shadow to their identities and left out. that hurt, but ended up being quite good too! then when i went to college, i was confused about my sexuality when i was exposed to a lot of queer culture and feminist ideas. my initial approach to feminism was basically that i wanted to say the right things to get close to women. i wanted sex especially, and the women i was attracted to were feminist. so i started my earnest training! it became also a way that my internalized self-hatred and confusion over my gender identity from my upbringing was expressed. i became a man-hating feminist, occasionally cross dressing, playing with gender roles and sexuality, etc. ah, the irony of it all. well, i've sorted that stuff out over the years, no longer "hate men" or say stuff i don't mean to get female approval (as you can see, sometimes probably unhappily!), and accept and love myself for who i am as a good person who happens to be male... that's my story basically. when i tell it, it all seems pretty determined to happen... and you?
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Thu, July 12, 2007 - 10:52 AM"i've been studying why the world is crazy and why i'm crazy and what to do to heal for a long time, and figuring out the relationship between mind and matter and society and language and all that stuff matters to me a lot. i've been in therapy for 11 years as a kind of spiritual practice, and in that context, it's fascinating to see how much the unconscious decides while the rather adolescent conscious will jumps up and down. it started as my thesis tying memetics to feminism, going in intending to push over yet another sexist brand of determinism, and then got converted gradually to determinism! arrgh, it's been a weird journey. why do you think you're curious? you must have thought about this stuff before, too. "
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I definitely understand the fascination(horror?) with this crazy world and the desire to understand it and maybe do something to help. Though my fascination certainly led me in a different direction but maybe to a similar result. I started at resource management and ended up at human fear and the desire to *feel* secure. I don't know why determinism doesn't bother me. Oddly enough I don't find the idea that events are causal to interfere with my concept of free will.
I'm going to have to think about that some more. But I suspect it was my early exposure to physics and Heisenberg's uncertainty principle (such as Kip mentions). My sense of the universe is that our knowledge barely scratches the surface and our understanding is very limited. We know enough to think we understand but quantum physics is a good place to drop that arrogance, as is biology. So, I don't see that the question of determinism can be answered right now and I don't find a lot of evidence for it. So, I don't worry about it. Let me qualify that. Human behavior does seem predictable to me most of the time. It does seem as if we become trapped in our conditioning and are easy to manipulate.
But not all of the time. There is a significant minority that is unpredictable and struggles against conditioning...like us here...and it's that minority that interests me. And it's that minority that makes me suspect that free will is possible even if logic can't explain it. Perhaps, free will is an emergent phenomenon.
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Thu, July 12, 2007 - 11:54 AM"There is a significant minority that is unpredictable and struggles against conditioning...like us here...and it's that minority that interests me. And it's that minority that makes me suspect that free will is possible even if logic can't explain it. Perhaps, free will is an emergent phenomenon. "
we may need to reconsider this way of thinking based on the latest neuroscientific research. what we consider to be "instinct" and "emotion" appears to be related to the signals of the limbic system, and the activity of the anterior cingulate cortex and other areas are more activated when we rationally consider our emotions and less reflexive impulses. in some people, the ACC and neocortex is more active than others, and this may even be related to feminism! it may be that -- at least in part -- feminists are rationally considering the relevance of more immediate limbic impulses and patterns related to gender and reproduction. so, we say, for example, "wait, her hip-to-waist ratio is not relevant to how well she can do the job." and of course, such a suggestions should not imply that we all have the same limbic impulses to begin with, or be user to oversimplify the number of vectors at play. does that sounds reasonable to you? -
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Thu, July 12, 2007 - 12:14 PMIt's reasonable to me that various physiological systems are involved in the thought and decision-making processes. But remember thought can trigger physiological responses as well as physiological processes can trigger thought. I'm just not impressed with the level of research that has been done at this point. Determinists will be looking at one piece (how physiology determines thought). Non-determinists(?) will be looking at other angles. Like the nature-nurture debate, society will bounce back and forth until it becomes clear they are interrelated and then the discussion will become interesting.I think it's just too early to take it very seriously. -
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Thu, July 12, 2007 - 5:32 PM"It's reasonable to me that various physiological systems are involved in the thought and decision-making processes. But remember thought can trigger physiological responses as well as physiological processes can trigger thought."
thoughts *are* physiological processes experienced subjectively, i think. are you supporting a kind of epiphenomenalism?
"Non-determinists(?) will be looking at other angles."
i'm very interested in exploring such angles, if you have any more to share. i've tried and tried and all my non-determinist hypotheses dropped like flies.
"Like the nature-nurture debate"
i think that debate has changed, at least on the most general level. it seems to me it's not about nature vs. nurture, but for which phenomenon what kind of variables are at play and to what extent. culture is natural and evolved just like other things. if you consider the notion of the extended phenotype and cultural replication a la memes, it goes some distance to explain the co-evolutionary processes of culture and biology. as you can see, i'm a materialist.
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Thu, July 12, 2007 - 6:29 PMDo you have access to this article?
www.nature.com/news/2007/...0514-8.html
I don't have access at the moment and I'm curious why he makes this statement: "Neuroscience can't show us the source of free will, says Philip Ball, because it's not a scientific concept."
Also, here's the original publication by Bremps if you're interested:
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Fri, July 13, 2007 - 9:57 AMNo access to Nature, unfortunately... Thanks so much for the links though! It seems to me that more philosophers need to be doing science and more scientists need to know philosophy. I'll comment later on this, thanks so much.
so, are we gonna talk about gender and sex here? come on kids, let's talk about determinism and feminism!
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Thu, July 12, 2007 - 9:32 PMalso, physiological processes don't somehow limit behavior they make behavior possible. biology is the mechanism through which we interact with our environment including our cultural environment. the more physiological processes are going on the more adaptive and variable an organism is. it isn't a zero sum game where the more biology affects a behavior the less culture can, the biological processes that produce that behavior can only do so through the input of the cultural environment and vice versa. -
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Fri, July 13, 2007 - 9:54 AM"also, physiological processes don't somehow limit behavior they make behavior possible"
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Fri, July 13, 2007 - 1:12 PMwell, i don't think it's that behavior isn't physiological as much as the cultural structures composed of physiological mental events have emergent properties that are not reducable to a physiological level of explanation.
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Fri, July 13, 2007 - 3:52 PMthe concept of emergent property can be useful, but if we allow it to slip into metaphysics, i think we have a problem. it is really a matter of a gestalt we perceive, but it is in the end comprised utterly of its components in the material world. for example, if we talk about a bee hive in terms of the emergent behavior of the group as a kind of single entity, that can be useful in some conversations. but if we start talking about IN REALITY the bee hive moves as a unit or has singular agency, or whatever, we start down the road of the derided group selectionist "good of the species" arguments. the same is true of culture and consciousness and meaning. meaning never exists in a platonic realm, it is instantiated materially each and every time. i'm not sure consciousness can't be talked about in terms of the brain entirely, even though we can't do it precisely now. you seem to be indicating that we will never be able to do it, because somehow it is an "emergent property" of the brain. that feels like high-grade pixie dust to me. -
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Fri, July 13, 2007 - 4:11 PMyou think so? it seems to me that the exchange of information between minds is a different type of system than the information processing system within brains and that that different type of system could have properties that are not explainable in terms of the structure of any particular brain. -
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Fri, July 13, 2007 - 5:28 PMyeah, it seems that way to me. there are neural correlates to all conscious and unconscious events in the brain. it really depends by what you mean by this: "properties that are not explainable in terms of the structure of any particular brain." i actually am not sure what you could begin to mean with this phrase. could you present a meaningful causal narrative about it? is that what you mean? because i agree with you, don't tell me about my oxytocin and vasopressin levels when i'm falling in love. it's gauche. but does my oxytocin level have anything to do with it? did our capacity for love evolve materially and is it expressed materially? yep. they are one and the same. it's just that some ways of talking about things don't work socially. that's my take.
geez, i think we should talk about gender now... that's why i brought this stuff up in the first place!
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 1:06 PMcollaboration is good but you have to create some system for establishing the validity of ideas to be able to create intellectual structures complex and powerful enough to explain the universe. it might be unpleasant sometimes and it might be fundamentally linked to the structure of patriarchy but relative to a goal of trying to understand the universe it can't be done away with. -
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 4:17 PM"collaboration is good but you have to create some system for establishing the validity of ideas to be able to create intellectual structures complex and powerful enough to explain the universe. it might be unpleasant sometimes and it might be fundamentally linked to the structure of patriarchy but relative to a goal of trying to understand the universe it can't be done away with."
I absolutely agree that ideas need to be tested but I disagree competition and argumentation are the only ways of doing so. In fact, my primary preference wherever possible is experimentation. I'm a big fan of what works.
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 1:09 PMand i can completely sympathize with being turned off by endless argument and the perhaps unjustified fervor that some people (particularly men) put into it but the argument itself isn't really the point. the point is being forced to think through your ideas deeply enough to be able to defend them. -
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 1:58 PMBut I do not wish to 'defend' my ideas. I wish to expand and develop them, in the company of people who see things differently from me.
I also do not wish to debate. I wish to listen to well-reasoned discussion and interesting experiences that are different from mine. Nor do I wish to be 'forced to think through' my ideas--especially by strangers on the net. I think through my ideas deeply and at great length, both on my own and in company. Force, debate, aggressive point-scoring, etc, makes me less interested in discussion, not more.
Also, as has already been pointed out, these are exactly the tactics by which men typically belittle, diminish or silence women's conversation. And frankly, I'm finding the women's conversation much more interesting in this forum and on these topics, and I seriously wish that the men who involve themselves would just simply listen. For a change. -
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 3:29 PM"Also, as has already been pointed out, these are exactly the tactics by which men typically belittle, diminish or silence women's conversation."
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 4:14 PM"you've been the most belittling in this forum that i've seen shannon, whatever the rationale."
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 6:37 PM"I comprehend scientific discourse quite well, thank you. I is an eddicated woman. I read gud. But you weren't using any. In fact, you admitted that you were vague about the scientific basis for your argument. At the same time, rather than making a solid case for your point that men's aging processes are biologically comparable to women's, you resorted to polysyllabic jargon. And it wasn't even scientific jargon--more like grad school in a blender. ..." etc. look down your pants, blah blah blah. not only a misrepresentation of what i said, but just plain not nice.
i'd like to let it rest though. seriously, if i can't accept and understand female anger in this society -- even if misplaced -- i wouldn't be much of a feminist. i really get it as much as i can, what women are dealing with, and i'm sorry the world is so fucked up. it's in my interests to clear the air so true alliances and making contact through the mistrust can happen. shannon's cool, it's all good, let's get back to supporting each other and learning from each other.
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Wed, July 11, 2007 - 4:04 PM"I seriously wish that the men who involve themselves would just simply listen."
i respect that that's where you're at and that you're weary of being mistreated. i also personally feel that the end goal is mutually respectful conversation between women and men, with each taking turns listening and speaking. if just listening for a while helps us toward that goal, i have no problem with it. but this can get tricky, because we are not simply ambassadors of our sexes; we are individual people with specific histories, emotional make-ups, and needs. i'm a white guy, and i certainly will accept more anger and even mistreatment from women and people of color and in general people who have been through systematic harm, but after a while, if that just keeps happening, i consider it impossible to be self-respecting and continue, and it's obvious the other person needs more healing time separate from members of a group that has injured them, even though not all members were involved.
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Wed, July 11, 2007 - 4:24 PMShannon--
I just have to tell you how wonderful it is to hear other women's voices! There's something very healing about hearing an intelligent, articulate woman say she doesn't want to debate just share ideas. I love brainstorming and thinking things through with people, it's a very synergistic experience but debating leaves me absolutely cold. I'd rather read a book. As a scientist having spent most of my intellectual life in the company of men, there's an automatic assumption that not wanting to argue means you have nothing to say. I think I've fallen into the bad habit of keeping my thoughts to myself. It's definitely to my detriment because discussion is a great stimulator.
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Thu, July 12, 2007 - 11:09 PMlori,
It's cultural as far as I can determine. I have no empirical data to back that up however.
I also appreciate your caution in the sciences when it comes to human self-justification. This seems to be a tool that human beings have perfected against themselves in such a way as they have become a danger to themselves as a species because of it. We may not be the first species to do this but we may well be the dumbest species with regard to it as we actually spend long hours trying to convince ourselves that we can't possibly be that dumb.
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Wed, August 1, 2007 - 8:03 PMi like you guys and all and i appreciate every word of this thread but where's the love?
one day, after many years of the same hard work you are all doing, i made a decision. i put the cosmological / genealogical questions to rest. i am a materialist, an atheist, a feminist, a determinist, a free will"ist", a taoist, etc. but none of these theories satisfied me or allowed me to get to what i really wanted. there was no flavor in it. on this fateful day i decided the reason why i wanted these answers was to love humans better. it finally dawned upon me that love encompasses and can contain all of these possibilities and can even transcend them. you will never figure out a reason to treat other beings well or treat your self well. it cannot be proven, tested or verified or even reasoned. it can only be done.
this is not to say that your ideas are not fruitful or that i don't appreciate the veracity of your work but can science (as a methodological verfication through experiementation etc) really convince us to do something like love each other? i am with Nietzsche on this one. we do what we want and we make up the reasons later. science only goes where we want it to and we only look at understanding and justifying behaviour after we do it. science tries to cheat and have knowledge at midday but it simply isn't possible; the owl of Minerva only flies at dusk" (thank you Nietzsche). free will versus determinism, like many other debates, gains its value only as a means for rationalizing what we already have done or know we are going to do. how can any rational explanation overcome this problem and try to establish something a priori or even outside of the infinite present moment? please respond this question especially.
gender and freedom are phantasmagorias...learning about the biology of these things reveals to us only that we like biology; it reveals nothing about gender or freedom. love, however, there is something fruitful. do not be nice to a gender bender because you have come to the conclusion to do so, that is more detrimental than fear or anger; rather appreciate and support them simply for no reason at all.
there is a lot of work to be done still, don't dally.
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Thu, August 2, 2007 - 11:11 AMchad, some of us aren't only using science as post hoc rationalization for directions already chosen. i suggest you consider alternative relationships with it. this notion that science is just another part of culture, like anything else, has some truth to it, but not enough to amount to the conclusions you draw. i know it is scary for all of us to learn more and more about the brain and behavior, and sacred notions like "soul" and "love" are being redefined in ways that don't sit well with our bronze age myths about the world. nietsche might sing a different tune if he knew more of what we know now.
" free will versus determinism, like many other debates, gains its value only as a means for rationalizing what we already have done or know we are going to do."
that is a position on the issue, not coming from a place outside of it as you feign.
"how can any rational explanation overcome this problem and try to establish something a priori or even outside of the infinite present moment?"
my approach is to try to synchronize the different areas of my brain, rational, emotional, sexual, etc. we have millenia of natural selection at work in our emotional responses and love matrix; the rational understanding of why that is and why cooperation is a rational choice most of the time causes no problems for me.
"do not be nice to a gender bender because you have come to the conclusion to do so, that is more detrimental than fear or anger; rather appreciate and support them simply for no reason at all. "
what exactly does "not reason at all" look like to you? i find it to be a non-sensical statement. if you are talking about non-transaction specific altruism and adopting a general strategic posture of kindness, then that is a posture that has evolved. morality does not come from the sky; it comes from the earth. -
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Thu, August 2, 2007 - 6:23 PM"chad, some of us aren't only using science as post hoc rationalization for directions already chosen. i suggest you consider alternative relationships with it."
are you sure? maybe it's just me then. i tend to see everything done by my conscious mind as a "coming after" if you will...coming after what? biology, perhaps, perhaps something more like life force, will (for lack of a better term) but more accurately as just what Watts called "happenings" - moments happen, they occur, like events the way Baudrillard describes them. my main justification for saying this however, goes to the psychology of James, more accurately to Peirce. theories are moments of rest for our minds; they help us feel comfortable with being alive. this isn't to say that revolutions in scientific thought, or any other theory, is not disturbing, e.g. galileo; it is only to say that as our knowledge progresses it is in the service of our desire to feel safe and secure. this, i think is the whole appeal of the scientific process. it emphasizes experiementation, method, the reproducibilty of results etc. in an effort to put our mind at ease about the unknowable future. this, again, is NOT to belittle science, only keep us honest about why we are scientific.
my relationship to science, or rigor of this sort, is ever changing and i hope you can add some mash of material to its shape.
I said, " free will versus determinism, like many other debates, gains its value only as a means for rationalizing what we already have done or know we are going to do."
you said, "that is a position on the issue, not coming from a place outside of it as you feign."
somewhere else i said, "how can any rational explanation overcome this problem and try to establish something a priori or even outside of the infinite present moment?"
my response...doesn't the question directly above on my part suggest to you already that i do not believe in an ahistorical position? oh, perhaps it was my position of love as another cosmology...if that is it then let me clarify, "love" is no more ahistorical than anything is, it is entirely rooted in the moment or instant to which it occurs. this in fact, is what makes love something of an infinite capacity and able to actually fully embrace the infinity of each moment (zeno - sort of). that, however, goes aside to another potential thread.
i don't think you would assert this but i want to caution anyone that thinks the scientific method is an ahistorical alternative. the seduction of this possiblity is easily understood due to the repitition of results that science emphasizes; it however, is simply not viable. science occurs in daily lives of people. we can trust it to help us make decisions any more than we can trust ourselves, so why not just trust ourselves?
i just had an interesting thought that i have never pursued but i wonder if the early scientists (who ever they are) relied heavily on the scientific method to compete with what was still a firm hold on reality posited by the belief in God. perhaps it had to compete in a cultural environment that literally wrote the book on what its methods were to be. science was, and is, in the service of something. i dare not say what but for shorthand lets go with will, not nietzsche's but schopenhauer's. we can say, i hope together, that science emerged from an environment that placed deifinite practices on its methodology- the method of science itself is culturally inscribed.
i am terribly off topic and although i want to question you on your approach to "synchronizing the different areas of [the] brain..." i want to stick to the question at hand...gender and freedom.
i said, "do not be nice to a gender bender because you have come to the conclusion to do so, that is more detrimental than fear or anger; rather appreciate and support them simply for no reason at all. "
you said, "what exactly does "not reason at all" look like to you? i find it to be a non-sensical statement. if you are talking about non-transaction specific altruism and adopting a general strategic posture of kindness, then that is a posture that has evolved. morality does not come from the sky; it comes from the earth."
first, morality comes from earth. i love this thank you, i am going to use it if the need arises if you don't mind. but i am not a moralist. "no reason at all" is amoral. morality requires reasons, it requires the immoral (a reasonable construction is created in the instant the duality is contemplated). morality does not work with the immoral. to get "beyond this" has been the project of many people that have lived on this earth- to a place beyond "good and evil" , to stay in the context i have placed it. my position, which as you point out, i definetely have one, is that gender and freedom , like many other strategies, occur or erupt (baudrillard) in each moment. they arise out of the moment in which they find themselves occuring and they dissolve away as the next moment occurs. i realize this is a problem for both science and more particualrly for evolutionary biology- that is, if these things want to lead. it is not a problem, however, if science has a different intention, one the likes of which i am sadly incapable of describing, then perhaps its potential can really shine through. but rationality is always late.
the short of it is i posit love as a way of living because it takes the guess work out of it. if you decide to love everyone you do so regardless of the current scientific finding or dominant religio-etho trends of the time. if we consider love in this moment ahistorical then we just need to step outside the box a little and at least pretend (lyotard) we are capable of stepping out of the box. for now i enter every encounter with every living being with as loving a disposition as i possibly can. sometimes this manifests as a slap, sometimes bravery (usually having to face my own fears), sometimes i am kind. i am especially fond of gender benders and those other "deviant" classes partly due to my respect for them and partly due to my being a white boy, my opportunities at deviance aren't so culturally inscripted. either way love is, in my mind, and getting to the heart of freedom, a better place to start from than science. in one single step you arrive without any reason whatsoever. where does gender and freedom come from? from our desire (think in terms of bataille and excess here) to love- we manifest gender and freedom, and perhaps oppression, in order to satisfy our desire to overcome the obstacle and love each other in spite of ourselves. it is entirely different approach, ala baudrillard but certainly not of baudrillard. if he reversed the death drive i can certainly reverse this, given time and diligence.
finally, and thank you for your patience, i think N's song would be just as radical in some way or other, but still similar to Zarathustra's only perhaps a bit louder, with some techno thrown in.:) and, by the way, he was writing for us anyway, i think he anticipated this kind of possibility we are discussing.
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Thu, August 2, 2007 - 11:22 AM"gender and freedom are phantasmagorias...learning about the biology of these things reveals to us only that we like biology; it reveals nothing about gender or freedom"
they are not phantasmagorical in their instantiations. gender is real; it's just a lot more complicated and diverse than most people's notions of it. and freedom is certainly real insofar as we have degrees of self-control and expression happening in different scenarios, some more free than others.
basically you are condescending and virtually telling us that all our silly little discussions and science projects are for naught, and if we just focus on loving each other, everything will be cool. i sense stereotypes operating here, pitting rationality vs. emotion, and assuming you have arrived just in time to save the hyper-rational from their cold, lonely existence. but i am a fuzz bunny already! -
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Thu, August 2, 2007 - 5:17 PMblue-j
"basically you are condescending and virtually telling us that all our silly little discussions and science projects are for naught, and if we just focus on loving each other, everything will be cool. i sense stereotypes operating here, pitting rationality vs. emotion, and assuming you have arrived just in time to save the hyper-rational from their cold, lonely existence. but i am a fuzz bunny already!"
i do not intend to condescend but i do intend to challenge a little. i do this only because i am in the middle of these challenges my self and hope to gain some insight into my projects. unfortunately most of my questions are related to your other post so i will start another for those but i do want to address this point directly.
science is not "silly" or "little" in fact, it is rigorous. i hope you don't think that i suggest that just because science, evolutionary biology more particular in this instance, can't answer your initial question with any satisfaction (afterall this is what theories are supposed to do for us- satisfy us - read W James on this with me) doesn't mean that science or evolutionary biology is all 'for naught'.
as far as the reality of gender and freedom being real, please elaborate. it seems to me that (and i reach back to your social constructionist past self here) both come into existence, are "instantiated" in the social mechanisms that construct them (read Judith Butler with me here). how can one ever measure freedom except juxtaposed against tyrrany? your notion of freedom sounds a little too absolutish for me right now. i am glad, however, that you use the word "instantiation"- the root of this word is "instanti" or "instance", like a moment. it comes and goes, it appears and disappears. go to marx's critique of labor and how men can be abused at work because they are encouraged to go home and abuse their wives. the freedom shifts and moves depending upon the instance. this is what i mean by phantasmagoria for both gender and freedom.
oh, by the way, i am here to pull, at least my self, out of that "hyper-rational...cold, lonely" existence.
now for the good stuff but first, one more aside. if we did focus on loving each other everything would be cool. imagine a world after, say, six successive generations did nothing but focus on how to achieve harmony amongst their fellow beings...interesting idea to me. and it can fit with evolutionary biology because we would certainly be modifying our genetic code to accomodate our new enterprise. not because of that genetic code but with it. -
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Fri, August 3, 2007 - 12:24 AM"as far as the reality of gender and freedom being real, please elaborate. it seems to me that (and i reach back to your social constructionist past self here) both come into existence, are "instantiated" in the social mechanisms that construct them (read Judith Butler with me here). how can one ever measure freedom except juxtaposed against tyrrany?"
the problem with an interpretation that is purely discursive is that it can overemphasize the representational aspects of our being. our bodies are there before we talk about them; awareness occurs without the mediation of discourse; power is achieved through much more material media simply representations. a post-structural method the overemphasize discourse forgets that discourse itself evolved from somewhere and somewhen, and that we exist in a continuum of lifeforms with a common and branching history. humans have culture, and their behavior is greatly affected by how we represent things, so the basic insight is good. but let me get hermeneutical for a minute and point out that the people who are most behind the theory that discourse is the primary conduit of power are people who make a living with words, writing, reading, speaking, teaching.
sex cannot be understood among humans without knowledge of sex from biology. we need to have an idea of why sex evolved, what it achieves despite great bioenergetic costs, and what might be predictable likelihoods in terms of behavior related to sex and reproductive roles in varying situations. gender itself is the representational/memetic/cultural interpretation of sex, and when we are smart feminists, we see that the normative interpretations are too simple, don't do justice to the variety that exists, and don't correctly identify the phenotypic flexibility humans have in regard to all things sexual. the feminist project is correcting these bad practices and updating our possibilities to better match our desires and our modern world.
understanding that this is true cannot and should not amount to a complete dismissal of sex as a biological phenomenon. can we use language in a way that respects the variety of people in the world? the options we all should have, regardless of our sex? all the while not pretending there is no pre-reflective signals that differ among women and men to a measurable degree? -
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Re: where does gender and sexual freedom come from?
Sun, August 5, 2007 - 9:55 PM"sex cannot be understood among humans without knowledge of sex from biology..."
according to who? there a million ways to come to astute and profound understandings of sex that have nothing to do with biology. do you have a bias here as to what it means to "understand" something- perhaps a bias toward "right" ot "true" understanding?
"understanding that this is true cannot and should not amount to a complete dismissal of sex as a biological phenomenon. can we use language in a way that respects the variety of people in the world? the options we all should have, regardless of our sex? all the while not pretending there is no pre-reflective signals that differ among women and men to a measurable degree? "
these are very good questions to put to the social constructionist (i being one of them) and we can be responsible here. can i reverse this question and suggest that biologists (not putting you here by the way) too have to resist the temptation to normative claims about the origins of sexual behavior. one thing to keep in mind...whether for good or ill it was philosphers and not biologists that came up with postmodernity and the langauge that we now have to discuss these issues. biologists have a real burden to overcome called the pedastal on which they place the scientific method. this silly method makes them think because they can repeat it it must be ahistorical. this simply is not true.
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